In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes fellow autism dad Mark Kendall for a heartfelt conversation about navigating public life with children on the autism spectrum.
Drawing from personal experiences with his 22-year-old nonverbal daughter, Mark Kendall opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges dads face—from handling staring strangers to managing safety in unpredictable situations.
Together, they share practical tips, honest stories, and a strong message of encouragement: you can go out, you can be confident, and you are your child’s best advocate. Whether you’re wrestling with your first family outing or planning a vacation with accommodations, this episode offers relatable support and empowering advice for autism dads everywhere.
TOPICS COVERED
The role of autism dads as public advocates and “ambassadors”
Tips for preparing outings with autistic children, including safety bags and routines
How public expectations change as autistic kids become adults
Strategies for handling unwanted attention and educating others
Navigating travel, vacations, and community inclusion with autistic children
Safety protocols, water risks, and long-term planning
Emotional insights on adapting to autism parenting over time
QUOTES
“You didn’t sign up to be an ambassador for autism—but you are one.”
“Dads need to feel confident bringing their kids into public spaces.”
“Everybody has their time limits—neurotypical or not.”
“Sometimes pulling the ripcord is the best decision for everyone.”
“If you’re not prepared, you’re not protecting—so have a plan.”
Every child’s autism journey is unique. This video shares one family’s personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
