In this heartfelt episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with David Lee—professor, podcaster, and father to 9-year-old Eddie, who is on the autism spectrum.
David shares his deeply personal journey, from early moments of uncertainty and shame to finding joy in the smallest victories. Together, they reflect on the unique trials and triumphs of raising an autistic child, discuss the value of faith and community, and explore how big life changes—including a cross-country move—can lead to better care and support.
If you’re a dad navigating autism, this episode offers raw honesty, encouragement, and solidarity.
TOPICS COVERED
The emotional complexity of publicly sharing your child’s autism journey
Dealing with delayed milestones and reframing success as an autism parent
Managing self-injurious behaviors and the importance of proper medical care
Why David’s family relocated from West Virginia to Missouri for better autism resources
The spiritual and emotional resilience built through fatherhood
Finding small wins: from water bottles to grilled cheese
The importance of community, grief, and realistic expectations
QUOTES
“We thought it was just ear infections… but then came the self-injury. That changed everything.”
“Grief, when processed right, can bring clarity—not just sadness.”
“Putting on shoes after a year of refusal? That was our Super Bowl.”
“You’re not alone. There are other dads who will nod and say, ‘Same here, man.’”
“Moving states felt impossible—until it became absolutely necessary.”
Every child’s autism journey is unique. This video shares one family’s personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
